Ho’oponopono by Dr. Hew Len

We are going through a time when many are upset and agitated about the direction of our government.  It feels like a good time to focus on peace, calm, and neutrality.  I am reminded of a powerful way of shifting that I have mentioned before and that is taught by Dr. Hew Len.  It is a Hawaiian ritual called Ho’oponopono.

The essence of it is that we are totally responsible for our own life and universe, and that we can use the world we are in as a mirror for learning where to focus on loving ourselves at a deeper level.

When we are bothered by or reacting to something outside of ourselves, we look for where/how/when we said/thought/or did the very same thing that is bothering us.  We then focus on loving and accepting ourselves for the very same thing.  It is as simple as expressing to ourselves, “Thank you, I love you!  I love you, thank you!”

YES, it is that simple!  And,it directly addresses what I believe is our biggest symptom…lack of self acceptance.

Following is an email conversation between Dr. Len and Joe Vitale, Author of “The Attractor Factor” and “Zero Limits”.  May it help bring some peace to you during what feels like a very volatile time!

Two years ago, I heard about a therapist in Hawaii who cured a complete ward of criminally insane patients – without ever seeing any of them.  The psychologist would study an inmate’s chart and then look within himself to see how he created that person’s illness.  As he improved himself, the patient improved.

When I first heard this story, I thought it was an urban legend.  How could anyone heal anyone else by healing himself?  How could even the best self-improvement master cure the criminally insane? I t didn’t make any sense.  It wasn’t logical, so I dismissed the story.

However, I heard it again a year later.  I heard that the therapist had used a Hawaiian healing process called ho’oponopono. I  had never heard of it, yet I couldn’t let it leave my mind.  If the story was at all true, I had to know more.  I had always understood “total responsibility” to mean that I am responsible for what I think and do.  Beyond that, it’s out of my hands.  I think that most people think of total responsibility that way.  We’re responsible for what we do, not what anyone else does – but that’s wrong.

The Hawaiian therapist who healed those mentally ill people would teach me an advanced new perspective about total responsibility.  His name is Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len.  We probably spent an hour talking on our first phone call.  I asked him to tell me the complete story of his work as a therapist.

He explained that he worked at Hawaii State Hospital for four years.  That ward where they kept the criminally insane was dangerous.  Psychologists quit on a monthly basis.  The staff called in sick a lot or simply quit.  People would walk through that ward with their backs against the wall, afraid of being attacked by patients.  It was not a pleasant place to live, work, or visit.

Dr. Len told me that he never saw patients.  He agreed to have an office and to review their files.  While he looked at those files, he would work on himself.  As he worked on himself, patients began to heal.

“After a few months, patients that had to be shackled were being allowed to walk freely,” he told me.  “Others who had to be heavily medicated were getting off their medications and those who had no chance of ever being released were being freed.  I was in awe.  “Not only that,” he went on, “but the staff began to enjoy coming to work.  Absenteeism and turnover disappeared.  We ended up with more staff than we needed because patients were being released, and all the staff was showing up to work.  Today, that ward is closed.”

This is where I had to ask the million dollar question:  “What were you doing within yourself that caused those people to change?”

“I was simply healing the part of me that created them,” he said.  I didn’t understand.  Dr. Len explained that total responsibility for your life means that everything in your life – simply because it is in your life – is your responsibility.  In a literal sense, the entire world is your creation.

Whew.  This is tough to swallow.  Being responsible for what I say or do is one thing.  Being responsible for what everyone in my life says or does is quite another.  Yet, the truth is this: if you take complete responsibility for your life, then everything you see, hear, taste, touch, or in any way experience is your responsibility because it is in your life.  This means that terrorist activity, the president, the economy or anything you experience and don’t like – is up for you to heal.  They don’t exist, in a manner of speaking, except as projections from inside you.  The problem isn’t with them, it’s with you, and to change them, you have to change you.

I know this is tough to grasp, let alone accept or actually live.  Blame is far easier than total responsibility, but as I spoke with Dr. Len, I began to realize that healing for him and in ho’oponopono means loving yourself.  If you want to improve your life, you have to heal your life.  If you want to cure anyone, even a mentally ill criminal, you do it by healing you.

I asked Dr. Len how he went about healing himself.  What was he doing, exactly, when he looked at those patients’ files?

“I just kept saying, ‘I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you and I love you,’ over and over again”, he explained.  The shorter version of this is simply, “Thank you and I love you.”

“That’s it?”

“That’s it.”

Turns out that loving yourself is the greatest way to improve yourself, and as you improve yourself, you improve your world.

Let me give you a quick example of how this works: one day, someone sent me an email that upset me. I n the past I would have handled it by working on my emotional hot buttons or by trying to reason with the person who sent the nasty message.

This time, I decided to try Dr. Len’s method.  I kept silently saying, “Thank you and I love you.”  I didn’t say it to anyone in particular.  I was simply evoking the spirit of love to heal within me what was creating the outer circumstances.

Within an hour I got an email from the same person.  He apologized for his previous message.  Keep in mind that I didn’t take any outward action to get that apology.  I didn’t even write him back.  Yet, by saying “Thank you, I love you”, I somehow healed within me what was bothering him.

I later attended a ho’oponopono workshop run by Dr. Len.  He’s now 70 years old, considered a grandfatherly shaman, and is somewhat reclusive.  He praised my book, “The Attractor Factor”.  He told me that as I improve myself, my book’s vibration will raise, and everyone will feel it when they read it.

In short, as I improve, my readers will improve.

Shared with permission by Joe Vitale.

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